Wanted! Ladies who are xNFx in the MBTI® System
Your top 2-3 Problems... bring them and let's solve them!
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Secure Yourself in a Closed-Circle MBTI xNFx Support
Group with 15 Ladies (maximum)
5-Months of Coverage
10-Sessions Total
One Session Every Other Week of
90-minutes sharing & learning
from each other | with each other
STARTING
January 29, 2025
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10 Sessions with Coach Ruth
Are you often misunderstood?
Do you feel frustrated and alone?
Do you wonder if there is something wrong with you?
Would you like to feel better?
Would you like DO better?
Would you like to improve your experience of Life and Relationships?
Have you found some answers in MBTI?
Are you an advocate of MBTI?
Have you verified your type?
* availability limited to 15 ladies *
Over 10 Sessions we will discuss and support one another using these Topics as our Guide
IF you know you are an NF in MBTI, then, THIS is for you!
What does Coach Ruth do?
Coach Ruth helps MBTI advocates
-especially MBTI xNFx types-
tweak "things" to experience MORE ease-in-this-world
while retaining their identity.
IF you know you are an NF in MBTI, then, THIS is for you!
Come OUT of the Darkness : Come into Connection and Belonging
A Generous Gift from this experienced Seeker of Truth...
IF you know you are an NF in MBTI, then, THIS is for you!
VERY LIMITED SPACES : DON’T MISS OUT : THIS PROMOTION IS A RARE OPPORTUNITY!
"Ships don't sink because of the water around them. Ships sink because of the water that gets in them. DON'T let what's happening around you get inside you and weigh you down."
SECURE your own ship with SUPPORT
5-Months for US $500
4 Different Meeting Times to choose from for you to get Tucked into the SUPPORT that will Make The Difference
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IF you know you are an NF in MBTI, then, THIS is for you!
Here's Everything You Get...
The Big Benefit
What Coach Ruth can DO for you...
Validate your perspective
Reframe difficult or challenging experiences
Put courage in your heart
Cast a vision for you based on your dreams and aspirations
Advocate for you in certain circumstances
Guide you through minefields
Identify and isolate the "leaks" in your Life bucket
Repair your motivation
Train you to flourish
Mentor you in upgrading your soft skills and your EQ
BE a sounding board for your ideas and questions
Support you as you face hard realities from your past and in your present
Pray for you, for your protection, safety, mental and emotional well-being, and financial independence
Teach you Biblical meditation
Stand in your corner and be a presence cheering you on
Help you recover your "Why"
Devise and prepare your Personal Development Plan .... .... with the option of including TTI Success Insights TriMetrix® EQ. THIS TTI SI report combines three sciences: Behaviors, Drivers and Emotional Quotient.
This particular combination of sciences unveils crucial insights into your ability to sense, understand and effectively apply the power of emotions to facilitate high levels of collaboration and productivity EQ.
YES!
Coach Ruth is a TTISI Certified Professional Behavioural Analyst, Motivators Analyst, EQ Analyst, and Competencies Analyst. PLUS...
*Note : engaging with the TTI assessments, analysis and private debriefs are NOT included in the price of this current offer: 5-Months for $500 ..... They are an add-on.
As a certified MBTI Verification Analyst ...as well as a... certified MMTIC Consultant, Coach Ruth loves her work so much that she founded Discover The Way Forward Institute - which has 5 Divisions to it....
Coach Ruth is focused on and passionate about Personal Growth, conscious Personal Development and Relationships - especially Communication! And, not only these topics but ALSO Root Development in The Scriptures - The Living Word of The Living God. She believes we can go higher and further when we can get to the "root" of our problems, and, clear out the fields in our soul just like a farmer clears his fields of rocks & rubble.
To Coach Ruth every human is a GEM and precious.
Every person is valuable, "a worthy work in progress".
But her specialty is the - MBTI xNFx - who is also either SEEKING more truth, Bible Literate, or, has been subjected to spiritual abuse and wants a BETTER Life.
There is a Lay-A-Way Plan. Use it.
IF you know you are an NF in MBTI, then, THIS is for you!
What are the key components of spiritual abuse, particularly in women?
Coach Ruth is the antidote to this problem:
Control: The abuser may try to control the victim's thoughts, beliefs, and actions by claiming to have a special connection to God or a higher power. They may use spiritual teachings or practices to justify their behaviour and pressure the victim to conform to their expectations.
Isolation: The abuser may try to isolate the victim from family, friends, or other sources of support, claiming that these people are a "bad influence" or that the victim needs to be more "devout" in their faith.
Guilt and shame: The abuser may use guilt and shame as a way to manipulate the victim, telling them that they are not good enough or that they are "sinful" for not conforming to the abuser's expectations.
Manipulating spiritual beliefs: The abuser may distort or misuse spiritual beliefs or teachings in order to justify their behaviour or control the victim.
Physical, emotional, or sexual abuse: Spiritual abuse can often be accompanied by other forms of abuse, such as physical, emotional, or, sexual abuse. The abuser may use spiritual language or beliefs to justify these actions or to make the victim feel guilty for speaking out.
Denigration: Spiritual abusers may use their spiritual beliefs or practices to belittle, shame, or denigrate women, often in the name of "holiness" or "purity."
Exploitation: Spiritual abusers may use their spiritual authority or position to exploit women financially or sexually.
Unreasonable Restrictions: Spiritual abusers may use their position or authority to stop or block the victim from gaining employment, or, stop or block the victim from establishing relationships with others, and/or control the victim's physical environment and/or means of transport.
Destruction: Spiritual abusers may use their position or authority to destroy relationships that the victim may have that do not meet with the approval of the abuser. Spreading false rumours, spreading accusations, or creating confusion in the victim's mind are often the tactics. The abuser's objective is to corner the victim so that the victim is reluctant to ask others for help.
Inappropriate Interference: There are seasons in life, e.g., childhood, school years, young adulthood, one's 20s, one's 30s, one's 40s. Spiritual abusers may use their position or authority to interfere in the victim's life in such as way as to "steal" or "rob" from the victim their chance of experiencing a season of life. Compare this experience with a snapshop (below) of the natural stages of Life according to Levinson (1978).
Lack of accountability: Spiritual abusers may use their spiritual authority or position to avoid accountability for their actions, often claiming that their actions are divinely inspired or protected.
....Certain relationships hinder spiritual growth.... and being in a relationship with a spiritual abuser is one of those "hindering" relationships.
It is important to note that spiritual abuse can be difficult to identify, as it often occurs within the context of seemingly legitimate religious or spiritual practices. It's also important to remember that spiritual abuse is never acceptable and that seeking help is always a valid option.
Levinson’s stages (at least up to midlife) are presented below
(Levinson, 1978)
He suggested that periods of transition last about five years and periods of stability last about seven years. The ages presented below are based on life in the middle-class several decades ago.
Early adult transition (17-22) : Leaving home, leaving family; making first choices about career and education.
Entering the adult world (22-28) : Committing to an occupation, defining goals, finding intimate relationships.
Age 30 transition (28-33) : Re-evaluating those choices and perhaps making modifications or changing one’s attitude toward love and work.
Settling down (33 to 40) : Reinvesting in work and family commitments; becoming involved in the community.
Midlife transition (40-45) : Re-evaluating previous commitments; making dramatic changes if necessary; giving expression to previously ignored talents or aspirations; feeling more of a sense of urgency about life and its meaning.
Entering middle adulthood (45-50) : Committing to new choices made and placing one’s energies into these commitments.
IF you know you are an NF in MBTI, then, THIS is for you!
Take a Look Under The Hood...
About Coach Ruth..... educated at an exclusive private Liberal Arts College in midwest USA, graduating with honours in International Economics with a focus on History and the German Language, Coach Ruth has had a vibrant, unconventional, colorful, and deeply satisfying Life thus far. Birthing her 3 sons in her forties has been an adventure that added a new dimension to personal development. These 3 amazing boys are now young men. Coached from Coach Ruth's ToolBox they are prepared and more than able to navigate this world and pursue their dreams. They have learned their lessons well.
Out-of-the-Box thinking is Coach Ruth's preference. Analogies, metaphors, and illustrations drawn with words are her secret weapons. The GOD of the Bible is her Love. ..... And, she tries (very hard) to let emotional intelligence guide her innovative creative approach when mingling with fellow humans in the highways-and-byways of Life.
Yes, Coach Ruth always capitalises the word Life. Because Life is ALIVE. Dynamic. Always changing as are people. There is NO such thing as "staying the same". One is either growing closer to Love, or, growing further away from Love. There are no empty voids and there is NO "having arrived".
These NF Living Success private groups are for people who understand this.
Do you?
Coach Ruth is 50% Hungarian and raised without a father. The "black Irish" identity on the maternal side shaped Coach Ruth's upbringing..... with an ever-pervasive Affinity with Spain. The twists and turns of Life prepared Coach Ruth to be a highly successful Medical Software Trainer in Military Hospitals all over the USA. .... As an Implementation Specialist in Radiology, Laboratory and Pharmacy workcenters, Coach Ruth troubleshooted problems for a Living. She's darn good at it. Here's a visual for you to get an idea of her Life on constant business travel....
IF you know you are an NF in MBTI, then, THIS is for you!
What's In It For You?
Like a dry sponge, you will absorb these benefits consciously and unconsciously.
The incoming information will change you for the better. And, as you "step out to find out", with the NF Living Success cap on, you'll discover new understandings. All your big or little encounters are worthy material for group support.
Validation. Acceptance. Approval. You get heard and understood. With these big 3, you're liberated to move forward and create your own results.
Solid Hope along with Anchors to hold on to.....
Translations ... for the NF or those who love them
Word Scripts : what to say in different situations - to get your needs & wants met
Practical Guidance : “rules” that stand the test of Time
TIPS & Tricks for navigating the Objective Concrete Sequential World of xSTx
Collection of Valid Perspectives that you probably don't have
Adjustments & Exercises around Failure : Failure is a learning process. YEP... Failure is an effective process of learning IF deconstructed properly.
Improved Language Skills to improve your Negotiating Skills
Increased Confidence! ... It's OK to see the world thru NF Imagination, which helps ALL of us confront the future and create it with artistry.
Ugraded Skills - to handle people and circumstances
Cycle Identification ... and custom worksheets to aid you in breaking free.
Training in Reframing ... skill in exchanging old frames with new frames of reference : upgrade your settings and borders
Instructions: Step-by-Step
Approaches that Work ... when dealing with your opposite MBTI type
New Communication Skills ... to communicate to your significant others that NF composes things in Possibility BEFORE we realise them in Actuality.
Improved Boundaries : pyschological, emotional, spiritual, financial, practical
Better Money Mgmt ... intro to T.Harv Eker's JARS Money Management System
Time : Tools & Management for the NF ... rituals instead of routines .... embracing fuzzy edges and giving your Ne / Ni assignments
Support in Real Time
Clarity ... and the Comfort it brings with it
Compassion ... and TIPS on how to add Self-Compassion into your daily Life
Happiness ... and how to make it a feature in the NF Life
The Option ... to grow your Emotional Intelligence exponentially through 1-on-1 Training using TTI Success Insights TriMetrix® EQ bundled triple science assessment.
A really big TAKE-AWAY for you will be this : your worth and your belonging are not negotiated with other people. We carry those inside of our hearts. Our Destination is to get clear on who we are.
You will learn to say with confidence this belief:
“I know who I am and I’m not going to negotiate that with you or anyone. I will negotiate a contract with you, or a topic with you, but, I’m not going to negotiate who I am with you. ….because then, I may fit-in for you, but I no longer belong to myself and THAT is a betrayal that I am not willing to do anymore.”
IF you know you are an NF in MBTI, then, THIS is for you!
For You ... Topics We Could Discuss
There is SO MUCH to talk about... it will be NFs together working on our "issues" in solidarity. Coach Ruth comes prepared. But, it will be the individuals in the group who decide what topics need the spotlight for the next week, week-after-week.
Coach Ruth will share content for about 20-minutes to get the ball rolling. But, the rest of the 90-minutes it will be interactive, like a group workshop. We will assist one another, in our worksheets, practices, role-plays, mock interviews, whatever comes up! The group "belongs" to the members in it. Below is just a sample of some topics for workshop discussion. This list is not exhaustive.
What would you LIKE to discuss?
Introduction to The Tablecloth™ and Orientation.
TIME, Issues around Time for the NF, and Time Management : bring your own examples
Boundaries AS Different Types of Fencing and Gates for the NF .... all the different types of boundaries (internal and external . physical, mental, emotional, sexual, financial) : bring your own examples
Conflict with ST types and What ST is afraid of ..... conflict with ST : why it happens, and what to do to avoid or at least navigate it
Work Environments and the World of Work for the NF : bring your scenarios and struggles
HOW to Get Yourself HEARD by ST in a way that they will respect and honour you : words and phrases that work
Let's TAKE-ON All Those "Labels" Head-on, Together : that "you're unique", "you're different", "autistic", "manipulative", "narcissistic", etc...
Adjustments & Exercises around NF "Failure" : bring your scenarios and struggles and personal examples so that we can help you harvest the gold
Self-Care and Self Compassion and How it Balances the Nervous System : things we can do as an NF that will improve the quality of our lives and minister to our own needs
Properly Stewarding NF Imagination : learning and practicing when and how to "share"
Triggers that cause us "to cave" : How to Keep a Trigger Worksheet and single-handedly upgrade your own emotional intelligence
"The Past" .... How to Know IF it is controlling our Future ... and what to DO about it
How to Reframe by Seeing Another Perspective and building another "picture" of what also happened
Build a Collection of Healthy and Wholesome Affirmations and Mantras .... specifically for NF Happiness in the Here-and-Now
Approaches to Dealing With The Important People in Your Life : the people you live with or work with, IF you know their mbti type, THOSE types get featured in our sessions
VALUES .... What are they for you personally ... and How to structure your NF Life around your heartfelt values .... for your values are the foundation to your Life of Happiness
The Power of Rewards and Giving Someone a Reputation to Live UP to.... a marvelous route to NF Happiness
What is Money? ... let's understand it as an NF and then, make it work for us in the "real" world (said tongue-in-cheek)
Self-Assessment Wheels ...and... S.M.A.R.T. GOALS .... we will brainstorm together and appraise the "value" of different healthy and wholesome "Intentions" around each topical item
The Option ... to grow your Emotional Intelligence exponentially through 1-on-1 Training using TTI Success Insights TriMetrix® EQ bundled triple science assessment.
IF you know you are an NF in MBTI, then, THIS is for you!
Save 72% On Your Mentoring because....
Save 72% On Your Mentoring because....
This is a BETA coaching program offered to a small group of participants for the purpose of gathering feedback and making improvements with your help before the full launch of the program.
Some important points about this *BETA* project:
1. It is a limited-time opportunity to participate in the program at a discounted rate.
2. Participants will have the opportunity to shape the direction and content of the program by providing feedback.
3. The program may not be fully developed and there may be some rough edges or areas that are still being refined.
4. Participation in the BETA program does not guarantee a spot in the full program once it launches.
5. This BETA program is an opportunity for participants to try out the coaching experience and see if it is a good fit for them, without committing to the full program.
Do You Like a Bonus or Two?
Special Bonus #1
Resilience Planner : Daily Journal Meditation Exercise and Worksheet PDF. Set includes 31-Days ready for printing and assembling into rings or a binder. This tool will help you BE INTENTIONAL at the start of each day. Designed by Coach Ruth for Coach Ruth. It's value has proven itself. It focuses the mind and leads you forward ONE STEP at a time. So you can "march on" with confidence & purpose.
Special Bonus #2
Your name, and your photo (if you approve), will go up on Coach Ruth's Vision Board. Coach Ruth will pray for you and cover what is dear to your heart --- what is important to you --- in prayers. Coach Ruth will advocate on your behalf before The Throne of Heaven. (She is on really good terms with The Court there, abiding in the Vine.)
Joining an NF Living Success group brings you into her world; and, her world is bathed in daily heartfelt prayers that are heard. Without faith it is impossible to please GOD. Coach Ruth will plead the case of the fatherless in such a way as to win it (Jeremiah 5:28).
A Risk-free Guarantee
Now it's time for one more bonus! Coach Ruth is so confident of the veracity (pronounced "vurr-ass-city") of MBTI and her seasoned expertise that IF you are not completely satisfied with your NF Living Success experience ... if it has not met or exceeded your expectations ... Coach Ruth will make it right or refund your money. She only asks for your honest feedback in writing so that she can adjust NF Living Success for the benefit of everyone.
IF you know you are an NF in MBTI, then, THIS is for you!
Personal Growth Made Simple
Achieving Mastery
Taking Inventory
Accelerating Growth
Analysing Pros & Cons
Thinking Clearly
Facing Challenges
Checking In
Fitting In Seamlessly
What Others Are Saying... #1
Coach Ruth has a really great understanding of the MBTI and the different perspectives each type experiences in the world. Her program helped me so much with my own Self-Care, mental processing, conversations, interactions, and navigating my relationships with opposite types.
She explained the various perspectives of each type in a way that made sense to me and motivated me to work well with them.
Her Scripts are a real Life-Saver.
She is great at showing each type how to work & live well with others. … Coach Ruth supported me using “Translations” that helped me to understand how others think. … Her coaching really helped to smooth interactions with the different MBTI types. She demonstrated HOW TO "Re-Frame Past Experiences" in a very practical & clear manner.
I have grown so much in my own confidence through Coach Ruth's guidance and support.
Her knowledge of MBTI Cognitive Stacks empowers her to really help people Navigate Real Life Situations through practical applications such as The Tablecloth (TM) and Table Legs (TM). These really simple but tools effectively guide each type into better and deeper understandings.
The Result : more satisfying experiences in everyday life. Thanks so much Coach Ruth.
Melinda, London, England, Creative Manager at MXG Media LLC.
Melinda, London, England
Creative Manager at MXG Media LLC.
Just In Case You're Wondering IF "this shoe fits you"...
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IF you know you are an NF in MBTI, then, THIS is for you!
What Others Are Saying... #2
It is challenging to understand teenagers as they go through huge emotional and social changes.
For me (ISTJ), it was very difficult to lessen the tension between me and my two teenagers aged 13 (INFP) and 15 (INTP). It seemed like I never understood them no matter how I tried. Being a single mother with a full-time job, I barely have the time to properly figure out the causes of friction. I just did not know how to connect with them; and, I started doubting my ability to parent them, hence, I started asking other mothers.
In doing so, I met Coach Ruth in person (as she has 3 teen sons). She introduced me to MBTI and carefully analysed the differences in our personality types.
She patiently explained each of our personality types and used them as a roadmap to navigate me in understanding our different strengths, weaknesses, and preferences. Although MBTI is a widely used psychological instrument, I had never believed in it.
But after meeting with Coach Ruth, all is different now. She encouraged me to try it, and then, she guided me on how to use it.
It is absolutely amazing to be able to better understand my teens and discover what and who they are from a new perspective!
This realisation dramatically changed my relationship with my teens for the better.
BrendaLynn , Scientist at Abbott Ireland Diagnostics.
BrendaLynn
Scientist at Abbott Ireland Diagnostics.
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